The “I Don’t Care” Façade: Running Away While Pretending to Lead
Kadija and Zara are sitting on a park bench, enjoying the fresh air. Zara points out someone walking by with unkempt hair and mismatched clothing, holding a sign that says, “Embrace Your Natural Self.”
Zara (raising an eyebrow):
K, you see that? I don’t even know what to say.
Kadija (sighing):
Oh, Zara. That’s the “I don’t care” lifestyle in action. But let me tell you something — they care. They care so much they’re practically screaming for attention.
Zara (curious):
So, what’s the deal?
Kadija:
These are the people who don’t want to deal with life’s problems head-on, but they also don’t want to leave society entirely. So, they rebel in the most absurd ways, thinking it’s revolutionary.
Zara:
Like growing out their underarm hair and calling it empowerment?
Kadija (nodding):
Exactly. They’ll let their underarm hair grow like it’s some kind of garden, refuse basic hygiene, and call it “natural.” But let’s be real — this isn’t about being natural. It’s about running away.
Zara (laughing):
Running away from what? A razor?
Kadija:
From life, Zara. They don’t want to face their insecurities, their problems, or society’s challenges. Instead of addressing the root issues, they think rebelling against basic hygiene or societal norms will magically give them peace.
Zara:
And the weird clothing?
Kadija:
Oh, that’s part of the package. They’ll wear the most bizarre outfits, light candles everywhere, and call it a lifestyle. But deep down, they’re desperate for attention. They want people to look at them and say, “Wow, you’re so free-spirited!” But the truth? They’re just trying to feel okay with themselves.
Zara:
So, they act like they don’t care, but they really do?
Kadija:
Exactly. They crave validation but pretend they’re above it. It’s the ultimate façade. They’ll walk into public spaces, fully aware their behavior is going to turn heads, and then act like the attention doesn’t matter.
Zara:
But why not just deal with the real issues?
Kadija:
Because it’s hard. It’s easier to say, “I’m rejecting societal standards” than to admit, “I need to work on myself.” And then they go even further, trying to shove their nonsense down everyone else’s throats.
Zara:
Like trying to normalize it?
Kadija:
Exactly. They’ll say, “Everyone’s different,” or, “It’s just a personal choice,” but some things aren’t subjective. Hygiene isn’t an opinion, Zara. If you were born on an island with no outside influence, you’d still cut your nails, trim your hair, and bathe. It’s natural.
Zara (grinning):
Imagine someone starting a “no shower revolution.”
Kadija (laughing):
Oh, please. That’s the level we’re heading toward with these people. They’d probably try to rebrand it as “embracing your scent” or something equally ridiculous.
Zara:
So, what’s the takeaway here?
Kadija:
It’s simple. If you want to retreat, then retreat. But don’t pretend you’re changing the world by refusing to take a shower or wear clean clothes. And for heaven’s sake, stop trying to force everyone else to applaud your nonsense.
Zara (smiling):
You really have no patience for this stuff, huh?
Kadija:
None. Life is hard enough without people complicating it with their fake “I don’t care” movements. If you care, care with purpose. Otherwise, just sit down somewhere — quietly.
Zara:
You’re not wrong, but I’ll never look at underarm hair the same way again.
Kadija:
That’s probably for the best. It’s about time we called things what they are.
